Co-Creating Your Own Wins
July 19, 2022
Written By: Jackie, General ManagerDo you consider yourself the author of your own script; the sole person that creates their own dialogue? Co-Creation means that you are acknowledging that you are responsible for your own life and that you continue to take responsibility and initiatives to create happiness, wellness, and success.
I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY HAPPINESS, MY WELLNESS, MY SUCCESS!
Let me provide an example of what this could look like: If you keep telling yourself things you will eventually find them (whether negative or positive). When you tell yourself something often enough, you will find the evidence that stacks the belief you have.
As an example, if you want to budget money every week that goes towards an investment, you will find the funds to do that! You will alter your spending habits and ‘extras’ in order to save that money. That could be $50 per week set aside and in order to find that $50, you will start looking at all your spending (not the necessary items like mortgage, heat, hydro, and groceries) I am talking about all those extras! You will begin to notice that you go to your favourite coffee shop every morning and spend at least $2-$5 a day. You also eat out at least 1 or 2 times a week with an average bill of $40-$60 (per person) each time you go out! Here I have already found $54-$155 a week of where you could save. You just have to know where to look and you have to be willing to make that commitment to put that money aside!
Another example, you recently decided that you want to join the local gym. You are all keen, you made your first appointment to get started; then you get home and discuss this with your partner and they are immediately drawing a picture that includes “how do you expect to pay for that”, “you don’t have time”, “why would you drive there 2 or 3 times a week with the price of gas”, “you won’t fit in”. Can you hear the excuses already? All of a sudden your enthusiasm has been halted and you start believing what you are being told and you instantly regret the decision you made for yourself!
There are a couple of ways you could have approached this decision above:
- You could have found answers to all those questions by creating a plan that explains what that will look like so they have a clear picture! You could have found the funds to pay for that membership (by budgeting), you could schedule your time at the gym (by getting up early or right after work), you budgeted for extra gas because you save that money elsewhere (budgeting), and you remember the vibe of enthusiasm you had initially and remind your partner that fitting in will not be a problem (your gut instincts)! Supporting each other in a relationship is so important!
- The other option you have is to allow your partner to control the narrative of negativity and you go along!
When you begin to work with others who want the same outcome as you, supporting you along the way, and guiding you in the right direction, that is a powerful thing! And when you find that you don’t want to let that feeling go! The same goes when you surround yourself with like minded individuals, who are all searching for the same thing or opportunity you want to hang on to those people!
CO-CREATE YOUR OWN WINS!
You can only co-create your own wins if you are empowered to be the creator of your own outcome or the creator of your own solutions. Nobody else is going to do the hard work for you! Therefore, if you want to budget for something, you will find the way! If you want to start going to the gym and look after your health and fitness, you will find a way! The only person stopping you from achieving anything in life is looking at you in the mirror!
Looking to start your health and fitness journey? No problem - we at Degree Fitness Seaforth can support you as you begin to co-create your WIN!
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Written By: Coach Sienna Showing up for yourself is so important but its often overlooked and dismissed. Showing up for yourself isn't some cheesey, made up statement. There is meaning behind it and science! Showing up for yourself is an empowering practice that can transform the way you live, love and lead! BUT what does showing up for yourself actually mean? And why does it matter so much? S howing up for yourself is... Not Selfish You matter and you are important! Treat yourself as if you were a loved one. It means honoring your own needs, values and well being to achieve overall wellness. This means being consistent in the way you treat yourself, not just when it's convenient to you! It is…. Keeping your word to yourself and keeping those promises Choosing rest to prevent burnout It means giving yourself grace and speaking kindly to yourself (Its your first time living!) Prioritizing growth even if its uncomfortable Creating boundaries and sticking with them Say No when something doesn't align with you or your beliefs I t's about treating you like you are worth caring for not only when you have “deserved it” but because you are worth that care, always! Why does all of this matter? It strengthens your relationship with yourself Prevents you for burning or crashing out Builds self confidence as well as trust in yourself Helps you stay balanced emotionally and physically The more time you spend getting to know yourself you learn and discover hobbies! You learn that YOU CAN DO IT and that YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS! You become more present for others! You are no longer pouring from an empty cup! What does this look like in real life? Drinking enough water even though you would rather skip it Going on a walk or doing meditation to have time for yourself to avoid crash out Keeping promises you said you would Letting go of perfection and simply doing the best that you can with what you've got S tart showing up for yourself today! Let yourself know that you've got you :) --- To inquire about services, programs or to get started email info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or call/text 519-441-7492!
Written By: Coach Kelly I’ve been exercising since high school... I don’t want to age myself tooooo much ;) but that was quite sometime ago. I meet with people all the time who are looking to get started. They are looking to lose weight, tone up, feel better, happier, increase bone density, do something for them, for various reasons. I’m going to give you two of the most important things that you need to do to make your fitness stick, through al season nd all set backs. Write these down, memorize them, and repeat them over and over. You’ll always succeed. Forget about motivation Seriously, forget it. Motivation comes after you get started. It comes when you start to see results; it comes when your pants fit different; it comes when you’re not out of breath going up stairs; it comes when you are running down the soccer field with your kids; it comes when you are happier; it comes when you feel less anxious, less depressed; it comes after you get started. Remember your why Why are you wanting to get started? Why do you want to spend money and time at a gym? Are you willing to do this for months, if not years? When your schedule gets busy, or your kids get sick, why will you keep coming to classes or appointments? You just need to get started, and you need to clearly understand why you are starting in the first place. After that, you must stick with it. Even when y you’re tired, when you’re frustrated, when you want to give up. Everyone wants the quick fix. We will spend hundreds, if not thousands of dollars on supplements that promise to help us lose weight, feel better, but honestly, nothing will compare to the eating some vegetables and getting in a structured workout with a Coach or at a gym 2 - 3 times per week. I know it’s hard. I know it’s hard. Like, I really, really know it’s hard. But, as you’re reading this, look way down the road, like 1 year, then 3, then 5 years. How do you want to feel? As hard as it is to get started, it will be even harder if you don’t do anything. You deserve to invest in yourself. You deserve to feel good. You have got this and we believe in you - Let’s go! ----- To inquire about services, programs or to get started email info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or call/text 519-441-7492!
Written By: Coach Kelly My gym ownership journey started in December of 2019. At the time I was managing the day to day Degree, coaching classes/appointments and running events/programs. The previous owner had some really exciting things coming up in her life that required big changes. One of them being handing over the keys to someone else. It was an immediate yes, and an absolute honour! Degree was originally founded as a place to workout with a group of like minded, amazing people. Using fitness as a vehicle for a better overall life (happier people, healthier people). I always believed int eh original mission, vision an values of Degree and they haven’t changed much over the years :) Fitness to me was a way to escape; I could move my body, stay strong and feel empowered when everything else around me felt like it was falling apart. I’ve continued to use fitness to improve my overall health and strength, and just like when I first started, to stay grounded when everything else feels shaky. Fitness to me, and at Degree, is more than muscles. It’s helping our clients have a safe space they can come, be themselves, and workout with their gym buddies. As they do this, the most amazing things happen, and it makes our hearts soar as you Coaches… We see you light up when you crush a hard workout, or do something you didn’t think you could do. When you share a bright spot and everyone in your class is genuinely happy and excited for you, too! When you start to realize, and believe , that you are whole heartedly capable of anything you put your mind to. That you are worth it; you always have been. Degree is the cornerstone of health and wellness, and we will always be here to help you, and our community live their happiest, and healthiest lives! ----- To inquire about services, programs or to get started email info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or call/text 519-441-7492!