How to get really “lucky”
May 7, 2019
5 years ago I took a trip on whim to Park City, Utah. It was for a “gym owners meet up” …. I didn’t own a gym. I was nervous as hell. Some of these people had owned gyms longer than I’d even been working out! I almost didn’t talk to anyone the whole first day. Until I met Chris Cooper- my first mentor. I decided for the rest of the weekend I was going to introduce myself to as many people as possible. I still see and talk to many of those people to this day.
Ever since then, the right things just seem to drop into my lap at the right moments in life. The building that Degree is in “just happened” to come up for sale right at the time I was looking to start this “gym thing for real”. Coach Kelly dropped into the first nutrition challenge I hosted in my garage, and a year a half later become a coach at Degree (with a little encouragement), Coach James lives across the street from the gym and was one of the first people to register for our Founders Club.
Now I seek out and continue to inject myself into these uncomfortable, terrifying, sweaty- palm (and arm pit) situations. I try things that I’m not sure will work, I invest money in places that I’m not 100% sure if it will pay off or not. I hardly ever play it safe. I always introduce myself first. But that’s being an entrepreneur, isn’t it? I have a feeling that being a parent is similar. You have no idea what this will bring you, but you are excited at the opportunity to try and grow and maybe even fail.
So how do you get “lucky” in life?
- Expose Yourself to More : more people, more ideas, more events, more countries… Seek experiences instead of money.
- Go First : If I’ve said this once, I’ve said it 1000 times. Make eye contact and say hello, reach out for the handshake, extend coffee date invitations. Very few people “go first” anymore- but we’re all thrilled to be invited! Tell them how excited you are, it will pull them out of their shell and ultimately out of yours (if you’ve met me, you know I have no issue showing you how excited I am to be around you).
- Work Wicked Hard- but be humble : When people see successful people, they often say things like “Wow you are so lucky, I wish I could do that”. Those people are usually incredibly gracious and usually offer some encouragement. What they don’t say is, “well it’s taken me years of incredibly hard work, long hours, not seeing my friends or family, many failed attempts and many tears to get here”. What you see of a successful person is just the tip of ice burg, they won’t show you the rest. Put your head down, and master your craft.
- Cull People From Your Life : If someone is constantly dragging you down, stop seeing them. If something is really upsetting you, stop doing it. Sounds simple, but I know that’s not easy. My first mentor quotes Emerson all the time, “Heartily know, when demigods go, the gods will arrive”.
- Open Yourself to Mentorship and Learning : Your ego is like a closed baseball glove. You could very well be missing easy pop flies because you don’t want to catch the ball “your way”. Instead of trying to re-invent the game, or running faster… try walking, with an open glove.
You don’t get to where you want by expecting things or waiting for opportunity. You create the opportunity you want- and sometimes, just sometimes, you get really lucky.
Some people believe in fate or luck, I believe in driving the car. I believe in earning the fuel.
Written By: Mairead, Registered Dietitian As a Dietitian, I work with a lot of different people. One common thread is that we talk about excuses. So many people come in to a nutrition consultation and tell me about their challenges with nutrition and fitness, and then follow it up by saying something along the lines of "I know these are just excuses, I can do better". The things we often consider excuses can include having a busy job and a busy family life. Working weird hours. Struggling with the cost of groceries. Caring for loved ones. Managing health concerns, chronic diseases, or injuries. The list goes on. For my nutrition clients, I rarely consider any of these things to be excuses. It's not an excuse that you can't eat well because you work long hours and then take your kids to their sports practices - these are very real reasons why you're struggling to make healthy choices. It's not an excuse if you work nights and need to get some sleep so you didn't make it to the gym - it's as aspect of your life that makes getting enough exercise challenging. Think about the things you might consider to be your excuses for not "doing better" with your health and fitness. Are they really just parts of your life or the season you're currently in? None of these things should be making you feel bad or like you're making excuses. But on the flip side, these reasons also don't mean we need to throw in the towel on our goals entirely. They mean we might need to get a bit creative, decide what's really important to us right now, and ask for help when we need it! Instead of feeling bad about your "excuses" that aren't really excuses, it might be time to find some new ideas. Working with a Dietitian can be a great way to figure out what's actually important in your health and fitness goals, and come up with some new ideas to get you there. There are always steps we can take in the right direction to move past those "excuses" and work together for a happier and healthier you! Looking for more personalized nutrition advice? Let's chat! Email mairead@degreefitnessseaforth.com for more information about our Nutrition Programs, or click HERE to book your FREE Bite-Sized Nutrition Chat!
Written By: Coach Kelly Have you heard... "You’re too old, you’re too tired, you’re too X Y Z" to workout? WRONG! Did you know that the more you move, the less likely you are to experience injuries? The less likely you are to trip, slip or fall. If these things happen, you are less likely to be severely injured. We’ve worked with many different people over the almost 10 years that Degree has been around; hip replacements, knee replacements, strokes, members that experienced an injury outside of the gym but still came to class, etc. We often put ourselves in a box that “I can’t because…”. But, is that true? What if you just tried? Moving keeps us healthy and independent; movement also promotes recovery when done appropriately. So, how do you stick to a fitness routine? Why does it matter? And believe me, it really, really does matter. Keep it simple. I saw the most changes in my fitness/health when I ate well and exercised regularly. I didn't starve myself, I didn’t do any low fat things, I didn’t have to take any extra supplements. I just ate well, trusted the process and moved my body. Now, keep in mind things are different for me than they were 3 years ago; I have a 14 month old and a 3 year old at home. Am I tired? Yep! Do I always get a full nights sleep? Nope, never. Do I have more stress now than then? 100%. However, my why stays true. I want to grow old with power and strength. I want to keep up with my boys and beat them in races as long as I can. I don’t want to be at the Doctors office all the time (even though our local Docs are amazing!). I don’t want to be at the mercy of someone else for my own health. You have the amazing opportunity to keep moving. You have friends, family, jobs, groups and an entire world that wants you to feel good. To feel happy, healthy, strong, and not question if you can go for the bike ride, or be scared to take the stairs. The next best thing you can do if you’re stuck? Ask for help. When our cars break down we take them to the mechanic. When we need a teeth cleaning we go to the Dentist. When we have a tax question we go to the accountant. The world is saturated with health and fitness fads - most of which isn't always the best. Ask for help - Talk to a Coach that can help you leaf through what Google is telling you to find out what will actually work for you, and help you create a habit that works. Ready to get started? Email info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or call/text 519-441-7492!
Written By: Coach Kelly Coach Kelly here - I’m here to talk today about what fitness really is, and what really matters. It’s not how much you weigh; It’s not your clothing size; It’s not have a 400lb deadlift; It’s not having 6 pack abs… Before we dive into it, I want to share my personal experience with fitness and how I’ve made it a non-negotiable. Something I’ve carried with me through highschool, college, working long hours as a home-care PSW, joining a gym (Degree!), managing the gym and then running it. In all those years this included job changes, moving, having two babies close in age, and all the ups and downs that life throws at us in between. I got into fitness because my sweet Mother was doing Pilates videos (the VHS kind) at home. It looked fun, I liked hanging out with my Mom so I gave it a try. That was the catalyst. I felt empowered; I felt strong. I was never athletic in high school, I didn’t play sports until grade 11 when a friend of mine introduced me to cheerleading. That became a big part of my life. Through this as well, I tried allll of the things to lose weight, get smaller, find my 6 pack… you name it. I tried the low fat everything fad; I tried the ice cold water with lemon first thing in the morning; I tried the Raspberry Ketones; I tried not eating after 8pm; I tried cheat days etc... And guess what? Nothing changes. Literally nothing. I was spending money on things that didn’t work; I was letting the magazine covers and the celebrities tell me that to be fit I needed to be smaller, I needed to weigh less. Before we get into what actually worked, let’s talk about what doesn’t and get Myth busting Myth 1 Your weight is the most important factor in your overall health and fitness. WRONG! Your bodyweight is simply everything that you are; your bones, muscles, organs, blood, hair, eyeballs, if you’ve gone to the bathroom or not, the food you’ve eaten, the water you’ve drank. You’ve probably heard of BMI (Body Mass Index). This is troublesome as it only measures your height compared to your weight. The shorter you are and the more you weigh, the higher your BMI, thus, we are labeled overweight when we really might not be. The taller you are, and the lower your weight, your BMI is lower, thus, we are labeled as healthy, when we really might not be. The markers that we want to look at (unless there is a medical reason to look otherwise) are things like muscle mass, body fat percentage and other non-scale markers like how stressed you feel (or not), how are you sleeping at night, are you happy? Our genetics play a massive role in our body type; understanding this can also help us work with our body instead of against it. There is a point at which your body will be at a weight it is likely to stick around unless drastic changes are made. For most of us the changes needed are simply unrealistic and. There are many important factors to your overall health & fitness, but bodyweight usually is not the one we need to focus on. Book your Intro Meeting by CLICKING HERE , or reply directly to this email if you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck or frustrated in your fitness journey. We can help!