Learn To Love Yourself At All Ages and Stages!

May 26, 2023

Written by: Coach MJ


How many people have struggled with body image throughout their lives?


And it's not just one gender that struggles with this issue.


Even before social media, body image has been a big topic and affects how we look at ourselves and to be honest, how we sometimes look at people around us.


How often have you said or heard someone making a negative comment about themselves or others? When you receive a compliment how many times have you countered back with a negative response instead of graciously saying thank you? How often does a comment no matter how far from the past cloud your judgement on the way we see ourselves?


It takes work to accept where we are both at mentally and physically but it is a place we can reach if we take the time to learn to honor ourselves where we are today. We are constantly changing throughout our lives and may not always be where we want. Past events, stresses, illness, medications, lifestyles we choose, family history or genetics and age all factor into how the body functions in each stage of life.


Here are a few ways to help improve our own body image:

Change the way we talk about yourself. Start the day with stating a positive thing that you like about yourself, "I like or love my eyes, smile" ” I said I was going to do something yesterday and I did it!” Maybe it was getting out for a walk, getting enough water to drink, any goal no matter how small it may seem but was a win.


Write them down and see how many positives there are. When we start the positive self talk and begin to throw out the negatives it can be amazing the switch that changes in our brains.


Give a genuine comment to someone else. It doesn’t have to be big as long as it is honest. Looking at the positives in others may help us see it in ourselves when someone says it to us. 


Don't let others pull you down with their opinions.

It's okay to acknowledge their opinion if needed but leave it there, it is their opinion not yours.  I was told to say this out loud or in my head to help deal with naysayers. "That's an interesting point of view. But that's not my point of view!" Change to the word ‘opinion’ for ‘point of view’ if that works better and see if that helps reduce the affects the words have.


This takes practice to make a habit but over time it is interesting to see how others' opinions aren't as hurtful or matter as much as they once were.


Another way to work on improving our body image is to give ourselves grace.  If we are looking to change anything it takes time. So if we set a goal and we don't reach it on the timeline set, reevaluate. Ask yourself is this goal realistic for the time you set? How far did we get into the goal? What worked and what didn't.  Goals are just that, a starting point or direction to work toward.


Along with grace comes the skill of learning not to get upset when we miss a workout, fall off your meal plan or the path to our goal. It's okay, we are not perfect and do your best to reset and move forward. A good way to look at it is the 80/20 plan…aim for 80 % of staying on track towards our goal or plan and 20% leeway for the rest. This can free up the guilt of feeling of failure when something comes up in life and not feel like we have to miss. 




At Degree Fitness we work with all levels of fitness and abilities. Every person is unique to themselves and one of our goals is to help them be the best they can be where they are at now!


At the end of each group class or Personal Training session we ask for a Bright Spot. Often we focus on what we think wasn’t great in our workout or our day, this is our little reminder to each client that there is always a silver lining even if it is as simple as you showed up! 


We also encourage regular check in meetings with your coaches to help you not only set goals but check in how life is going and if there is anything we can help you with!





To find out more that Degree Fitness Seaforth has to offer give a shout to

info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or click here to set up a Free No Sweat Intro meeting with one of our Staff!

September 22, 2025
Written By: Coach Kelly Have you heard... "You’re too old, you’re too tired, you’re too X Y Z" to workout? WRONG! Did you know that the more you move, the less likely you are to experience injuries? The less likely you are to trip, slip or fall. If these things happen, you are less likely to be severely injured. We’ve worked with many different people over the almost 10 years that Degree has been around; hip replacements, knee replacements, strokes, members that experienced an injury outside of the gym but still came to class, etc. We often put ourselves in a box that “I can’t because…”. But, is that true? What if you just tried? Moving keeps us healthy and independent; movement also promotes recovery when done appropriately. So, how do you stick to a fitness routine? Why does it matter? And believe me, it really, really does matter. Keep it simple. I saw the most changes in my fitness/health when I ate well and exercised regularly. I didn't starve myself, I didn’t do any low fat things, I didn’t have to take any extra supplements. I just ate well, trusted the process and moved my body. Now, keep in mind things are different for me than they were 3 years ago; I have a 14 month old and a 3 year old at home. Am I tired? Yep! Do I always get a full nights sleep? Nope, never. Do I have more stress now than then? 100%. However, my why stays true. I want to grow old with power and strength. I want to keep up with my boys and beat them in races as long as I can. I don’t want to be at the Doctors office all the time (even though our local Docs are amazing!). I don’t want to be at the mercy of someone else for my own health. You have the amazing opportunity to keep moving. You have friends, family, jobs, groups and an entire world that wants you to feel good. To feel happy, healthy, strong, and not question if you can go for the bike ride, or be scared to take the stairs. The next best thing you can do if you’re stuck? Ask for help. When our cars break down we take them to the mechanic. When we need a teeth cleaning we go to the Dentist. When we have a tax question we go to the accountant. The world is saturated with health and fitness fads - most of which isn't always the best. Ask for help - Talk to a Coach that can help you leaf through what Google is telling you to find out what will actually work for you, and help you create a habit that works. Ready to get started? Email info@degreefitnessseaforth.com or call/text 519-441-7492!
September 22, 2025
Written By: Coach Kelly Coach Kelly here - I’m here to talk today about what fitness really is, and what really matters. It’s not how much you weigh; It’s not your clothing size; It’s not have a 400lb deadlift; It’s not having 6 pack abs… Before we dive into it, I want to share my personal experience with fitness and how I’ve made it a non-negotiable. Something I’ve carried with me through highschool, college, working long hours as a home-care PSW, joining a gym (Degree!), managing the gym and then running it. In all those years this included job changes, moving, having two babies close in age, and all the ups and downs that life throws at us in between. I got into fitness because my sweet Mother was doing Pilates videos (the VHS kind) at home. It looked fun, I liked hanging out with my Mom so I gave it a try. That was the catalyst. I felt empowered; I felt strong. I was never athletic in high school, I didn’t play sports until grade 11 when a friend of mine introduced me to cheerleading. That became a big part of my life. Through this as well, I tried allll of the things to lose weight, get smaller, find my 6 pack… you name it. I tried the low fat everything fad; I tried the ice cold water with lemon first thing in the morning; I tried the Raspberry Ketones; I tried not eating after 8pm; I tried cheat days etc... And guess what? Nothing changes. Literally nothing. I was spending money on things that didn’t work; I was letting the magazine covers and the celebrities tell me that to be fit I needed to be smaller, I needed to weigh less. Before we get into what actually worked, let’s talk about what doesn’t and get Myth busting Myth 1 Your weight is the most important factor in your overall health and fitness. WRONG! Your bodyweight is simply everything that you are; your bones, muscles, organs, blood, hair, eyeballs, if you’ve gone to the bathroom or not, the food you’ve eaten, the water you’ve drank. You’ve probably heard of BMI (Body Mass Index). This is troublesome as it only measures your height compared to your weight. The shorter you are and the more you weigh, the higher your BMI, thus, we are labeled overweight when we really might not be. The taller you are, and the lower your weight, your BMI is lower, thus, we are labeled as healthy, when we really might not be. The markers that we want to look at (unless there is a medical reason to look otherwise) are things like muscle mass, body fat percentage and other non-scale markers like how stressed you feel (or not), how are you sleeping at night, are you happy? Our genetics play a massive role in our body type; understanding this can also help us work with our body instead of against it. There is a point at which your body will be at a weight it is likely to stick around unless drastic changes are made. For most of us the changes needed are simply unrealistic and. There are many important factors to your overall health & fitness, but bodyweight usually is not the one we need to focus on.  Book your Intro Meeting by CLICKING HERE , or reply directly to this email if you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck or frustrated in your fitness journey. We can help!
September 10, 2025
Written By: Mairead, Registered Dietitian For many of us, fall brings a return to routine and a change in schedule. Maybe you have kids heading back to school, or maybe you have a more consistent work schedule after a summer of fun plans. Or maybe that old back-to-school energy just has you wanting to set some goals. Whatever it is, fall is the perfect time to get back on track with your fitness and nutrition goals! Check out these 5 ways you can work on getting back on track this fall! 1. Make sure you're drinking your water! Drinking enough water is a small step in the right direction. If you've had a busy summer, maybe hydration hasn't been top of mind! For most normal healthy people, aiming for 2-3L of water a day is a reasonable goal. If you're well below that, try aiming for just one extra glass a day and increasing slowly from there. Bonus: one small healthy change often leads to others. Drinking your water could get the ball rolling! 2. Do some meal planning! Meal planning doesn't have to be rigid or complicated. If you're constantly standing in front of the fridge at 6pm wondering what to eat, meal planning can fix that. If you're constantly stuck throwing out random ingredients you didn't know how to finish, meal plannign can fix that. If you bring home groceries but then don't know what to do with it, meal planning can fix that. If you're eating more take out than you'd like because you didn't have a plan, meal planning can fix that. Even thinking a day or two ahead can help you cut the stress at meal time! 3. Get realistic about what you can manage! Before you start overhauling everything, take a second to look at what this season really looks like for you, and what kind of health and fitness goals could be achievable. Maybe a return to routine means you can workout every day of the week now - fantastic! Maybe a change in routine means you need to explore different times to get to the gym and other ways of moving your body - also fantastic! Maybe you're home more this fall and will be cooking more - amazing! Maybe you're going to be busier and need to expore quick and healthy meal ideas - also amazing! Figuring out how to match your goals to your real life right now is key to actually making changes that stick. 4. Shop your kitchen! If your summer was busy, it's time to take stock of what's in your kitchen. Check your fridge, freezer, and pantry cupboards. Is there anything that should be used up that you can plan meals around in the next couple weeks? Are there staple items you count on for easy meals that you need to restock? Could you cut your grocery spending down for a week or two by trying to use what you have so nothing goes to waste? If you have the time for it, this is the perfect time to take stock of what you have and make the most of it! 5. Book a check-in or ask for help! Sometimes we just don't know where to start or what to do. Sometimes we're so busy living our lives that it's hard to see possible solutions to our health and fitness struggles. That's when it's time to ask for help. This might mean asking a friend for meal planning ideas or to set a regular time to go for a walk. It also might mean booking a No Sweat Intro at Degree to learn more about programs, checking in with your coach if you're feeling like something needs to change, or meeting with a Registered Dietitian to set some nutrition goals that will work for you in this season. There's nothing wrong with needing a bit of help! Looking for more personalized nutrition advice? Let's chat! Email mairead@degreefitnessseaforth.com for more information about our Nutrition Programs, or click HERE to book your FREE Bite-Sized Nutrition Chat!